What is your stance on abortion?
Pro-life, but allow in cases of rape, incest, or danger to the mother or child
rape babies can be put up for adoption, and most women who go through abortions say that the abortion itself was more traumatic than the rape. danger to a mother and child can be easily avoided through c-section.
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@BDJH7S41mo1MO
Rape is much more traumatic than abortion, rape can cause serious mental health problems for whoever experiences it, man or woman, people often experience anxiety, depression, guilt, and more. Rape can also cause PTSD due to it being extremely stressful. And a simple c-section doesn't completely mean it avoids all danger, things can go wrong with pregnancy, like the baby getting stuck where it's not supposed to be, or maybe a stillborn. But if a baby gets somewhere where it's not supposed to be, and cannot go back, the baby will die, and soon the mother, it isn't very "pro-life" to let the mother die even though the baby is already dead, is it?
no government should be allowed to make the choice for a mom, they are their own person, it's their body their choice. no one else gets to say anything about what they decided. also there are many complications c-sections can cause, as well as births, as well as pregnancies. the mother should always have the choice to save herself if something is wrong, because you can always make another baby, you can't make another mom.
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@BDHL9Z52mos2MO
A woman's right to choose should be considered sacred. Forcing a woman (even children in some cases) to carry the life of their rapists child should be considered cruel and unusual. If a man was in this situation, it wouldn't be a question of "if it comes to an abortion," it would be "when is the abortion scheduled?"
@BDHK6JM2mos2MO
A woman is not an incubator, circumstances do not have to be extreme for a woman to not want to birth a baby. The life of the mother is more valuable than a clump of cells, a woman does not at any point have to sacrifice her ideal life for an unborn fetus. In the event of rape no woman should ever have to carry her rapist's DNA within her and much less raise it. Adoption isn't a valuable option because there are hundreds of thousands of children already in foster care, pro-lifers who care so much about children can go adopt one of them.
While abortion offers many risks so do C-sections, and many young children who are not yet women also go through instances a rape and sexual abuse leading to possible pregnancy, leading to a possibly unsafe pregnancy that cannot be carried to full term. While abortion may be a sad experience for most, the actual act of carrying a unwanted child caused by an abuser is a traumatic experience within itself, one that no child, teenager, or women should have to experience. Everyone deserves a choice, no matter the circumstance, but even more so when the causing factors were out of their control.
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@BDHKFMTPeace and Freedom2mos2MO
@BDJQT8C1mo1MO
Women overall can choose if they want abortion. But women's mental health could deteriorate being forced to carry a baby that they never had the decision to keep or not. Postpartum depression is already bad for regular women, imagine it for women who couldn't decide if they wanted to keep the baby even if in the end they put in adoption. Should abortion methods be improved upon, yes, but should abortion be banned just for that, no.
@BDHK4KW 2mos2MO
Despite some of these opinions and experiences, women should always be given the choice no matter what. People who have children and are low income are very likely to no be able to support the children, and there are already too many children up for adoption. In addition, it is not fair to women to have to go through that, especially those who are very young such as in cases of rape.
@BDHJZY8Independent 2mos2MO
Abortions are traumatic for some women, yes, but if you are underage and still live with your parents, most girls do not get a say in putting the baby up for adoption; most are forced to keep the baby and are stuck looking at a reflection of who hurt them. Most of the time, women who say abortion is traumatic are women who had to do it for medical reasons, such as their baby being doomed to die in the womb.
Excusing the banning of abortions by saying that some women find an abortion more traumatic than a rape fundamentally misunderstands the question at hand. Rapists thrive off of depriving women of the choice, and to deprive women of the choice to abort babies conceived in this manner forces them to go through a traumatic birth, where people will ask how they got pregnant, or why the father isn't in the picture. This leads to more trauma than would be necessary if the women had the choice to terminate the pregnancy, not to mention health complications. It isn't a matter of whether we should force women to abort, but whether they should still have the choice, and morally, the answer is yes.
@BDHG4WG 2mos2MO
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@BDHJFQ2 2mos2MO
It is the women choice to decide to keep the rape baby or not.. rape or abortion can be traumatic for anyone. being a woman isnt easy as everyone assumes it is.. everyone sees women as objects and already go through a hard time with misogyny. there will always be a man that has a say but never a woman. adding to it, just because a woman has an abortion doesnt mean they got raped, or considered a "slut" .. at the end of the day the woman should decide what to do with their body and baby. not the government.
@BDHK8LZ2mos2MO
@BDHGPG42mos2MO
Women should not be forced to carry a child they do not want. If the current abortion methods are traumatic more than the act of rape that the woman had experienced, we should be working to make the process as painless and less traumatic as we can. Better medical procedures, and counselling that isn't just trying to talk to woman out of the abortion but offering empathy and methods to come to terms with what happened to them that led to this choice. Forcing a woman by taking her choice away simply because others believe rape babies can 'simply' be put up for adoption or that having the child is 'easier' should be considered cruel and unusual punishment. No one chooses abortion lightly.
@BDHKD4W2mos2MO
Even if adoption is available, pregnancy itself is not a neutral experience. A person who becomes pregnant through rape is still being required to undergo months of physical, emotional, and medical consequences against their will. Adoption addresses parenthood; it does not erase pregnancy, childbirth, or the trauma associated with carrying a rapist’s pregnancy.
The claim that “most women say abortion was more traumatic than rape” is not supported by mainstream medical evidence. Large longitudinal studies from organizations such as the American Psychological Association and… Read more
@BDHJNT6 2mos2MO
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@BDHHT3L 2mos2MO
a woman should have the choice to get an abortion, say if the woman was raped by a family member, she should have the choice to, and the baby would become an insest baby and be very ill. it is better to get an abortion than put the baby up for adoption for it to grow up and just think their parents didn't love them. and during an abortion, the baby is just a fetus and can not feel the abortion happening and the woman is put on medication so she can't feel it hurt or any discomfort. and actually, c-sections can be very dangerous, especially if not done correctly. they can also cause future medical issues. and say is the mother is 16 and got raped at a party, she is not ready and can not financially support a baby. it should always be her body her choice.
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@BDHG4H52mos2MO
A c-section is hardly an easy solution. Especially in the case of a child which when it comes to rape is a large portion of the victims. Would you want a 10 year old carrying a whole human life for almost a year, all to give it up for adoption. Pregnancy is a huge responsibility and hardship. And then to conclude it with the concept of slicing open her stomach as the easy solution. Imagine that was you and then rethink your position on the subject.
@BDHN3P9 2mos2MO
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@BDHJPPS2mos2MO
A few responses. First, more easily available medical abortion interventions can reduce the trauma. Second, this is a fine enough point, but counsels toward choice. For some women, abortion may be more traumatic than going through with birth. No woman has an abortion without the thought crossing her mind that NOT having the abortion is an option. Let women choose, and many will choose life. Taking the choice away is cruel.
@BDHJ8BK 2mos2MO
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@BDHJHYN2mos2MO
Placing any type of ban on abortions will lead to problems unexpected or unaccounted for. Using the opinions of few does not take into account the experiences of others. Even though some women who go through abortions say it was more traumatic than the rape, others say keeping a child they aren't ready for is a constant reminder of the event and leads to worse trauma - for the mother and child. That's exactly why its called "pro-choice." So that women have the ability to CHOOSE the path that best suits them - weather it be an abortion or birth. We also already have a major… Read more
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